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  • Creating a Successful Virtual Date for Your Client

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    Global Love Report – May 27, 2021
    Written by: Pamela Stephanie

    As a matchmaker, there are many ways you can help create a successful virtual date for your client. After all, first dates can be a daunting thing, even when it’s a virtual one. For some people, a virtual date may even be more intimidating than an in-person date. To help your matchmaking client with their first date jitters, here are a couple of tips on what they can do (with your help):


    1. Order flowers or a small gift for the date

    Some people like to bring flowers for their first date. Remind clients that just because their date will be virtual doesn’t mean that they can’t send their match flowers.

    On one of our series of webinars, matchmaker Beth Mandell mentioned that one of her clients actually sent his date a bottle of champagne and a box of chocolates before his date. The client did this on his own initiative—with her help—and Mandell noted that she would suggest this to her other clients too.

    2. Hold a Mock Date to set the mood

    This can be as simple as helping a client set up their device before the date can take place. However, it can also include figuring out which room should be chosen to have the date. For example, if the living room is too noisy, perhaps a home office would be a better spot.

    Or maybe the lighting in the dining room is not very flattering or is too low, then a brightly lit bedroom may be a better choice. Ashley Campana mentioned that she helped her client choose the best lighting, even moving around the room to find the right spot.

    Campana added that not only is this a great way for her to connect with her client, it’s also a way to set her client up for a successful virtual date.

    3. Figure out what to do during the date

    While a client and their match may not be in the same room or even the same city, that doesn’t mean that they can’t be sharing the same experience. Eating a meal while on their first date can help them connect with each other. And to clients who are nervous about finding topics to break the ice, remind them that talking about what each of them are eating can be a conversation starter!

    Other things that they can do is to play a virtual board game, if they share the same interest. For clients who are confident of their cooking skills, they can try a joint-cooking date.


    The Webinar mentioned in this article is called, “How to Monetize Your Business in the Times of Corona”. To watch the full video, please click here.

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  • Impact Of Covid-19 on the Matchmaking Industry

    Survey Results & Analysis

    In late April 2020, Global Love Institute conducted research and survey on hundreds of Dating Industry Professionals worldwide to find out how has the pandemic impacted their business revenue and operations. We also sought out information to understand if companies reinvented their business models during this time and the response from their member database. Further observations were in particular, looking at how singles accepted or rejected virtual dating and whether companies were able to successfully close potential clients through video-calling platforms. Our findings and analysis are translated into graphs, which you can read below.

     


      Virtual meetings become the new normal

     


    How singles embraced the latest dating trend

     


    Contact us: Media@GlobalLoveInstitute.com
    (Source: Global Love Instiute)
  • Analysis: Can Collaboration Take The Dating Industry to The Next Level?


    Global Love Report – Feb 5, 2020

    Written by: Jamie Lee

    The dating industry may have grown rapidly over the years but many problems persistently remain to plague the industry until today.

    • Online Dating: Lack of verification, scammers, heavy effort, constant need to market due to high churn rate and limited monetization.
    • Offline Dating: Lack of scale, difficulty in growing their database, lack of repeated sales, constant need to spend marketing dollars.

    These challenges are not easy to solve due to the current business model entrenched in each segment. This analysis argues that greater collaboration could be the key to solving the problems in the dating industry and perhaps even growing it to the next level.

     


    1. Collaboration Between Online & Offline

    Research has shown that singles get into relationships faster when they are being coached by an expert, who can guide them through the ups and downs of dating.

    Let’s use these two companies: Online Dating App “Alpha” and Offline Dating Service “Omega”, as examples.

    Alpha has spent aggressively over the past few years on marketing to grow its database to an enormous size. However, the business cannot stop spending on marketing as many of its users would churn away in approximately 4 months’ time, and they require an active user base to generate more subscription revenues.

    Omega on the other hand, is doing exactly the same – spending a lot of marketing money to get new leads so that they can profile and offer singles a range of matching and/or coaching services. After successfully matching and coaching some of their clients, the client pool gets smaller as singles slowly get into relationships. The whole cycle of getting new clients then begins again.

    Here’s the opportunity: Imagine Alpha and Omega were to collaborate just by cross-marketing Omega’s date coaching services to optimise the app user usage while they are on the app, and also at the point of app user churning, cross market interested users to more personalised dating/matching service.

    This would be a win-win all around for a couple of reasons:

    • The users can get a better, more personalised experience using the app, and improve their results in dating. Due to the insights from the online date coach, the user is also less likely to be fooled by a love scammer.
    • Company Alpha, which is an online dating app can earn extra revenues at several points (higher RPU) other than depending on subscriptions solving their monetization challenges while improving its users’ experience on the app at no extra overhead costs.
    • Offline dating service Omega in turn will receive more business and have more reliable source of leads solving their need to constantly market to get new clients.

    Finally, another benefit is that more money is kept within the industry rather than both services spending marketing dollars (and bidding up the cost) to sometimes get the same user into their service, making marketing more efficient (and less costly) for all parties. Currently, this form of collaborative cross marketing from online to offline is common in China and has evolved to become one of the standard dating business models there.

     

    2. Collaboration Between Offline and Offline

    In order to build more revenues, offline dating providers (such as one-to-one matchmakers, singles’ events organisers, and dating coaches) can cross-refer (like above) each others’ services to their clients – especially since they are in different offline segment or in different cities. Creating bundles such as all-in-one package that includes all service providers, and giving greater percentage to the service provider that closes the sale as a reward might also help to incentivise this collaboration.

    One of the biggest collaboration opportunities for the offline industry, which has been proven in Japan, is to tap into a combined and shared database of verified singles. This is how it works:

    • Company Sigma has a client seeking for a suitable match that they do not have within their database at the moment.
    • Company Sigma advertises on the shared platform on the matching requirements and criteria while posting a collaboration fee of $X amount.
    • Company Delta responds with a potential match.
    • Both company Sigma and Delta check and verify the match, and agree to arrange a date for their clients.
    • Both companies fulfil a match for their clients, with company Delta earning extra revenues in the midst of this collaboration.

    This shared database collaboration is perhaps the most organised in Japan where companies like IBJ provide platforms, which matchmakers can upload their clients’ profiles on and use it to find matches. Clients themselves can even search the platform itself for more matches when they are free and get the matchmakers to arrange the date.

    Cross-matching collaboration makes sense because there is always a limit to how big an offline dating company’s verified database can be.

    By adopting this method, the process of profiling and verifying each single client, including non-paying clients used for matching purposes, can be reduced. This frees up more time for Matchmakers to find more clients and focus on better customer service rather than just screen for non-paying clients and doing database management. Cross matching collaboration has become very common practice for the high end-matchmakers operating in the United States and helps alleviate the challenges of matchmakers in scaling up their database to find matches.


    3. Why Isn’t There More Collaboration Then In This Industry?

    If the benefits of collaboration seem so obvious, why isn’t there more collaboration in the industry?

    Old school competitive mindset dictates that the primary business focus is to triumph over and crush another competitive business, and this old mindset could be preventing more collaboration from happening as they needs trust, mutual respect and patience to succeed. For more collaboration to happen, the industry has to switch to a more Abundance centric mindset of seeking win-win outcomes even for our competitors.

    Large disparity in business sizes between many offline and online dating players could also be a hindrance.

    As the offline businesses are much smaller in size than the online businesses, many online players may not find it worthwhile if they are just dealing with just one small offline player who does not have the scale to impact their larger business bottom line significantly. Hence, for there to be a chance of such more collaboration between online and offline to happen, the offline dating services need to reorganise themselves into collaborative networks to deal with the much bigger online dating businesses more meaningfully and with more scale.

     


    Summary

    The above mentioned methods of collaboration are not the only option in which the industry can work together, but if we can make it possible, we could solve some of the problems plaguing both online and offline Industries while growing the pie for everyone.

    We would love to hear your feedback and ideas on the collaboration opportunities in the industry! Write to us at Media@GlobalLoveInstitute.com

     

     

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  • TOP 3 Rewards and Opportunities of Being in the Offline Dating Industry

     

    Global Love Report – Jan 29, 2020
    Written by: Jamie Lee

    Despite some challenges and limitations that we have discussed in our article last week, being a one to one matchmaker, dating coach or singles’ event organiser provides rewards and opportunities unlike any other industry.

    Here are some of the best rewards and opportunities that the offline dating industry has to offer.

     


     

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    People are looking for an enriching and meaningful career love this industry as this work can has massive impact for the future.

    Many of the couples that are brought together are likely to start their own families. They will have children; their children will grow up, meet someone, and the cycle continues – impacting the lives of countless generations to come. There are few joys that could match looking at client’s social media account and witnessing the joy, developments and growth of their family – which would not happen without you!

    In a world where first impressions and connections over the digital realm become the norm while face-to-face connections are declining, offline dating businesses bucks the trend by working to provide a closer connection for singles who are looking for someone special. Many of the couples created by a matchmaker, event organiser or even a dating coach could have even potentially rejected their future partner if they judge purely from digital angle; from a poorly taken photo or ill-thought out profile, which does not truly encapsulate who this individual really is.

    Offline Dating Professionals therefore provides the opportunity or advice to help the single to better determine whether there is real face-to-face chemistry and connection (where it truly matters), giving the match a chance and attention it truly deserves rather than be commoditised as one of the many digital matches out there.

    Apart from just the couples formed, the dates resulting from offline dating professionals made will also result in new friendships formed or at the very least helping a single in discovering on who they are and who they are looking for in a partner. Without a doubt, this experience can help them in their dating journey in finding “the one”.

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    Dating and love is a topic that fascinates and attracts attention. The offline industry by comparison with other industries, gets stronger draw of media focus despite it being of a smaller size and scale than others.

    As the media is constantly looking for interesting and engaging angles to write or interview about, they often turn to charismatic offline dating professionals who have plenty of real world personable dating stories and experience which would value-add or/and bring credence to their various story “love-related” article. The coverage can range from exploring new dating trends, expert dating/relationship opinion, discussing new dating survey results to launch new offline dating products. Offline dating professionals and companies are often well featured and sought after in today’s media environment.

    If you are not yet gaining benefits from the potential media attention, it could be a low hanging fruit you’re missing out on. Learn to gain media attention because if you do it properly, it will become a brand building and lead generating exercise.

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    The challenges in dating vary for each single individual:

    • Some people need more matching and meeting opportunities due to their busy schedules, vocations or locations
    • Some need to improve their dating skills and first impressions to attract other singles better and,
    • Some need more personalised help in identifying blockages that have prevented them from succeeding in the past or have kept the from choosing the right partners

    Hence if there is a collaboration mindset between Matchmakers, event-organisers, Dating Coaches, Image Consultants and even Online dating sites/apps, everyone’s revenues can be expanded to fulfil the needs of singles who are often already using multiple services and platforms anyway. It will be a win-win-win for everyone.

    In fact, there are plenty of collaborations already happening between matchmakers for cross-matchmaking which help expand their database – especially in US and in Japan. Collaboration between online and offline platforms are also much more common in Asia.

    Annual conferences hosted by Global Dating Insights (GDI) and Global Love Conference (GLC) is a great platform where offline industry professionals can meet people within the business, and potentially find new collaboration opportunities by networking with each other.

    For collaboration to further grow and hence further powering the industry forward, it is important that the industry take an abundance mindset that focuses on creating a bigger pie for everyone rather than a scarcity mindset, which could end up leaving money on the table due to the reluctance to collaborate.

     


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    The offline dating industry has grown hand in hand with online dating industry, and the above 3 factors are likely to feature strongly as the industry continues to evolve and grow. We predict that offline dating professionals will continue to provide the passion, personalisation and human connection that will continue to be an important part of the dating industry for the foreseeable future ahead.

     

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